tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post5809003342263662102..comments2023-11-05T01:11:52.744-07:00Comments on Tinkerbell's Tea Party ~ [Vol. 1]: i saw you: about my 2nd sonroxanne s. sukhanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16424834424208118694noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post-41568216128967656942006-10-03T01:44:00.000-07:002006-10-03T01:44:00.000-07:00My heart is aching from the sadness and pain in yo...My heart is aching from the sadness and pain in your posting.<br><br>There is nothing I can say or do but offer my hand for you to hold and a hug when you need it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post-57668117623627325582006-10-03T03:19:00.000-07:002006-10-03T03:19:00.000-07:00If I'm getting it right, you are talking about the...If I'm getting it right, you are talking about the greatest fear of a parent. I don't know if I could stand it if something happened to one of my kids. They would probably have to medicate me for years, maybe until I died too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post-61861071252259750532006-10-03T20:44:00.000-07:002006-10-03T20:44:00.000-07:00wistful - thanx for your kind words. and thanx for...wistful - thanx for your kind words. and thanx for reading.<br><br>blue eyes - i hear you. the thing that's worse than loss of a child thru death is loss while they remain alive. ie ... giving it up because you are unable to meet their needs while still meeting your own. thanx for reading this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post-13842665536487099612006-10-04T13:40:00.000-07:002006-10-04T13:40:00.000-07:00Words can't even begin to touch the significan...Words can't even begin to touch the significance of this post. Profound, true, compelling, raw, honest & with the deepest love.<br>I come from a family of gathered souls. My brother is my brother & we share the same parents, as my neice is my neice & my cousins are my cousins, my sisters are my sisters...but we are not all of the same blood type, do not come from the same gene pool.<br>What you did was the biggest & hardest & most unselfish choice ever betewn upon a mother. I admire you choice & respect your reasons...they are validated by the fact that you loved this son more than yourself...you were willing to give him up to allow him the opportunity that you knew you could not, at that time & in that place, provide. You took a gamble, knowing that you would lose him & knowing that it was his chance to make it.<br>I ache for your pains & hope that you can find comfort in what you did see... his face, his skin, his hair, the light in his eyes, the gait in his walk, the spirit of life within him... you allowed for all of that.<br>You are a beautiful person.<br>If it weren't for love like yours, I would not have the family I have today.<br>((thank you))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post-87873269083270961722006-10-04T15:22:00.000-07:002006-10-04T15:22:00.000-07:00skinny - thanx for your kinds words. gathered soul...skinny - thanx for your kinds words. gathered souls. i very much love that term. <br><br>thanx for reading.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post-16991975312947971542006-10-04T16:58:00.000-07:002006-10-04T16:58:00.000-07:00oh. I hope I can find words big enough. How many ...oh. I hope I can find words big enough. How many times I have seen brown eyes bowing into the hood of my stroller, uttering the casual words of a passerby, but the lovelooks of a mother, at my beautiful child... the haunted brown eyes at the mall flitting out of the corner of a thoughtful face, a Mother's face, as my daughter tried on Prom dresses,....the searching brown eyes from afar...at the beach, football games, graduation...in the wind, the music, the night. I know she is out there and I ache for her, for the love that must have ripped her apart to place her child, my precious child, in my arms. God bless you. I see you everywhere. <br><br>As our sister, Kimbies, said..."Gather them, for they are flowers"...Our life, our family, our WORLD....blessed by the grace of God, and the braveness of The Mothers of our Children. <br><br>Thank you for sharing all that you are...absolutely beautiful, heartfilled, thoughts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post-52490002281026483522006-10-04T17:09:00.000-07:002006-10-04T17:09:00.000-07:00a lovely sentiment ... many thanx ... :Da lovely sentiment ... many thanx ... :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post-63585175344566885022006-10-05T05:16:00.000-07:002006-10-05T05:16:00.000-07:00Pink~You move me.I posted a blog last night ... in...Pink~<br>You move me.<br>I posted a blog last night ... inspired by thoughts of you & your writings, me & my life.<br>Thank you...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6831646832101933997.post-17048561346481683642006-10-05T11:08:00.000-07:002006-10-05T11:08:00.000-07:00skinny - thanx thanx thanx for your kind words. i ...skinny - thanx thanx thanx for your kind words. i had planned to check your blog out ... i will get there!<br><br><a href="http://itismyheart.blogspot.com/">here</a> is a link of someone who inspired me to begin writing like this ... i don't think she's written in a while, but all the same check her blog out - it will move you, its that good.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com